Category Archives: Mindset

Beyond Beginner’s Luck: The Beginner Mind Advantage

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Ah, it’s that time again. In 1 day, I start again as a beginner. This time, it’s in an attempt to learn Ruby on Rails programming in the span of 10 weeks. The Fall 2012 cohort has 60 students, some of whom have prior programming experience.








Some days, some of us–especially those with no programming experience–get worried and think we are behind the rest of the students. Jesse Farmer, founder of Everlane and one of the instructors at Dev Bootcamp, put it well (bolded emphasis mine):

Some questions you might be asking yourselves at this point…
Am I behind?  Should I be preparing more?  Will I be ready?
Those questions are healthy as long as “Will I be ready?” doesn’t become “There’s no way in heck I’m ready” and “Am I behind?” doesn’t become “I’m so far behind I’ll never catch up.”

That mindset reminds me of when I was on the triathlon team in college. In my second year competing, there was a “mentor-mentee” matching program, wherein newcomers to the team would be assigned to a more senior athlete for mentoring. Of the entire season, it turned out that the most exciting and anxiety-inducing day was likely an athlete’s first race. Sometimes on race day, my mentees would come to me and lament about how much “less talented” they are than the faster athletes, or say something like:

All I want is to not come in last.

As if being a beginner were a bad thing. I beg to differ. In my days of being dead last on my high school cross country team, there were some great perks. After I became a faster runner, I came to relish them when I started cycling as a beginner, triathlon as a beginner, and now, programming as a beginner. Come to think of it, there are at least 6 advantages to be found in any endeavor as a beginner.

1) Lots of room for improvement. Even more motivating to compare the progress of others and notice how much more you’re improving from all that hard (and smart!) work.

2) No external pressure to perform. The pressure we place on ourselves is high enough. Imagine the added stressors of a team, coach, family and friends that burdens the elite athlete.

3) It’s easier to learn proper technique as a novice, and it will make you fitter in the process. Two birds, one stone. The talented must slow down before seeing gains from clean form.

4) They won’t mind if you miss your goal time. By “they”, I mean the team, your friends, other people.

5) You have no responsibility to respond to competitors in the field, or your performance in relation to others. You have only the responsibility of your own performance.

6) Usually the personal achievement is more than enough for satisfaction, although there is less public visibility when you meet your goals. Fortunately, your mood is less dependent on others’ affirmation of how well you did, because any improvement is a step forward. Also, you don’t get in the situation where you can’t decide how happy to be because you achieved a “personal record” time but didn’t win the race.

Of the 60 incoming Dev Bootcamp students, I likely have less programming experience than most. According to my 24/7 time tracking system which records everything I do everyday in increments of 15 minutes, I spent:

9.25 hours in 2011 learning HTML and CSS
48 hours in the summer of 2012 doing Ruby tutorials

…throughout exactly 16 days (57.25 hours cumulative) of touching code, ever, in my life.

And it’s going to be great. For the beginner, every minute is a challenge, every challenge overcome is an accomplishment, and there will be nothing holding you back from going through hell and high water, doing the best possible work and learning as much as possible.

Why People Ask Why: Self-Improvement is a Foreign Concept?

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How often do you ask “why?” when a fellow college student announces that they’re going to “get effed up tonight”?

Now, compare this to how often you would be asked “why” for doing something unconventional that would potentially improve your life, like switch to a healthier diet, or try a different sleep schedule. If you haven’t tried, what would happen if you were to mention something of the sort, and see what kind of reaction people give you?

Or, just take my word for it. Many people ask, “why are you doing that?”. WHY?

Most of us apparently understand better the desire to drink 40 ounces of alcohol over a wasted weekend than the desire to tailor one’s lifestyle to be the best it can be with the least amount of effort.

Am I missing something here?

And for those who really truly want to know why…

“Why not?” That nip-it-in-the-bud, cop-out answer never satisfied me.

Maybe it’s what Chris Guillebeau said:

The people who wonder about motivations may not have yet found something they really love that’s worth doing strictly for the sake of doing it. I hope they do  — meanwhile, I’m having fun.

Maybe because if I didn’t do it, I would deeply regret it. As for why to do it, we each need to figure that out for ourselves.
Maybe because we’re asking “why?” to the wrong pursuits.
Maybe the real question is…

Why do people want to get f*cked up?

What’s Your Vulnerable Spot? (When Selling Cookies is Harder than Biking 3500 Miles)

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The hardest thing I’ve done so far is starting a late night cookie delivery business for my local college campus. It was scary too.

I was more scared the morning I posted flyers about our grand opening than I was standing at the start line of the Ironman triathlon at age 18, surrounded by lifetime veterans in their 40’s. Arguably, it was even harder than biking across the U.S.

I guess I am the most vulnerable when I put myself “out there,” for all to see and evaluate. It might just be an introvert thing…You could imagine that, from the extrovert’s perspective,  one might feel more vulnerable achieving something for themselves without social support from their friends and family. Whether it’s more challenging to put yourself “out there”, or to go at it alone toward a personal accomplishment, working in your vulnerable area will make you grow.

What is the hardest thing for you to do, the thing that makes you feel most vulnerable? What if you did it….this year, this month, today, NOW?